If I love you, I can see you as a separate person, with your own values and thoughts and feelings, and I do not insist that you surrender your identity and conform to an image of what I expect you to be for me.
A.... I don’t want you to lose hope and then blame me for it. B.... I won’t force you to be independent and you can rely on me. C.... I don’t expect you to follow my step and become similar to me. D.... I won’t push you to lose yourself and become what I like you to be.