Last week, The Washington Post ran a front-page
story that said most stay-at-home morns aren’t S. U. V. — driving, daily
yoga-doing, latte-drinking.upper-middle-class women who choose to leave their
high-powered careers to answer the call to motherhood. Instead, they are
disproportionately low-income, non-college educated, young and Hispanic or
foreign-born: in other words, they are women whose horizons are greatly limited
and for whom the cost of child care. very often, makes work not a workable
choice at all. These findings, drawn from a new report by the
Census Bureau, really ought to lead us to reframe our public conversations about
who mothers are and why they do what they do. It should lead us away from all
the moralistic bombast about mothers’ "choices" and "priorities". It should get
us thinking less about choice, in fact, and make us focus more on
contingencies-the objective conditions that drive women’s lives. And they should
propel us to think about the choices that we as a society must make to guarantee
that the best possible opportunities are available for all families.
The basic finding of this latest report-that the more choices mothers
have, the more likely they are to work-has been known, to anyone who’s taken the
time to seriously look into the issue. Ever since 2003, when Lisa Belkin’s
article in The Times magazine about highly privileged and ultra-high-achieving
morns — "The Opt-Out Revolution" — was generalized by the news media to claim
that mothers overall were choosing to leave the work force in droves,
researchers have been revisiting the state of mothers’ employment and reaching
very similar conclusions. In 2007. the sociologists David
Cotter, Paula England and Joan Hermsen looked carefully at four decades of
employment data and found that women with choices-those with college
educations-were overwhelmingly choosing to stay in the work force. The only
women "opting out’in any significant numbers were the very richest-those with
husbands earning more than $125, 000 a year-and the very poorest-those with
husbands earning less than $ 23, 400 a year. You might say that the movement of
the richest women out of the workforce proves that women will, in the best of
all possible worlds, go home. But these women often have husbands who, in order
to earn those top salaries, work 70 or 80 hours a week and travel extensively;
someone has to be home. Many left high-powered careers that made similar demands
on their time. The alternative narrative-of constricted
horizons, not choice-that might have emerged from recent research has never
really made it into the mainstream. It just can’t, it seems, find a
foothold. "The reason we keep getting this narrative is that
there is this deep cultural ambivalence about mothers’ employment." England told
me this week. "On the one hand, people believe women should have equal
opportunities, but on the other hand, we don’t envision men taking on more child
care and housework and, unlike Europe, we don’t seem to be able to envision
family-friendly work policies. " Why this matters — and why
opening this topic up for discussion is important — is very clear: because our
public policy continues to rest upon a fictitious idea, eternally recycled in
the media, of mothers’ free choices, and not upon the constraints that truly
drive their behavior. "If journalism repeatedly frames the wrong problem, then
the folks who make public policy may very well deliver the wrong solution. " is
how E.J. Graff, the associate director and senior researcher at Brandeis
University’s Schuster Institute for Investigative Journalism once put it in the
Columbia Journalism Review. "If women are happily choosing to stay home with
their babies, that’s a private decision. But it’s a public policy issue if
schools, jobs and other American institutions arc structured in ways that make
it frustratingly difficult, and sometimes impossible, for parents to manage both
their jobs and family responsibilities. " What is the deep meaning of the report run by the Census Bureau
A. It changes the images of what mothers are.
B. The society should notice the importance of mothers’ choices.
C. We need to talk more about what mothers should do rather than the choices
they have.
D. More attention should be paid to more opportunities offered to change
women’s current lives.