TEXT B It is natural for young
people to be critical of their parents at times and to blame them for most of
the misunderstandings between them. They have always complained, more or less
justly, that their parents are out of touch with modern ways; that they are
possessive and dominant, that they do not trust their children to deal with
crises; that they talk too much about certain problems-and that they have no
sense of humor, at least in parent-child relationships. I think
it is true that parents often underestimate their teenage children and also
forget hwo they themselves felt when young. Young people often
irritate their parents with their choices in clothes and hairstyles, in
entertainers and music. This is not their motive. They feel cut off form the
adult world into which they have not yet been accepted. So they created a
culture and society of their own. Then, of it turns out that their music or
entertainers of vocabulary or clothes or hairstyles irritate their parents, this
gives them additional enjoyment. They feel they are superior, at least in a
small way, and that they are leaders in style and taste.
Sometimes you are resistant, and proud because you do not want to your
parents to approve what you do. If they did approve, it looks as if you are
betraying your own age group. But in that case, you are assuming that you are
the underdog: you can’t win but at least you can keep you honor. This is a
passive way of looking at things. It is natural enough after long years of
childhood when you were completely under your parents’ control, but it ignores
the fact that you are now beginning to be responsible for yourself.
If you plan to control your life, cooperation can be part of that plan.
You can charm others, especially parents, into doing things the Way you want.
You can impress others with your sense of responsibility and initiative so that
they will give you the authority to do what you want to do. Teenagers tend to have strange clothes and hairstyles because they ______.
A.want to show their existence by creating a culture of their own B.have a strong desire to be leaders in style and taste C.have on other way to enjoy themselves better D.want to irritate their parents