One of the major causes of the prevalent anxiety about the
future of the family is rooted not so much in actuality as in the tension
between idealized expectations for the family in American culture and the
reality itself. Nostalgia for a lost nonexistent family tradition has prejudiced
our understanding of the changes that families are experiencing in contemporary
society. Furthermore, the current anxiety over the family’s fate reflects not
merely problems in the family itself, but a variety of other social problems
that are eventually projected on the family. The real problems that the American
family is facing today are not symptoms of breakdown, as is often suggested.
Rather they reflect the difficulties that the family faces in its adaptation to
recent social changes, particularly in the loss of the flexibility in household
membership that the family had in the past, the reduction of the variety of its
functions, and to some extent the weakening of its adaptability.
Current anxieties also reflect the difficulties that American society has
been experiencing in accepting a great diversity in family life and alternative
family forms. The idealization of the family as a refuge from the outside world
has lessened its ability to cope with diversity. The continuous emphasis on the
family as a universal private retreat and as an emotional haven (安息所) is
misguided in light of our knowledge of the past. Early American families
fulfilled a broad array of functions that went beyond its more restricted
emotional functions in the present. Most of the family’s roles in the past were
intertwined with larger community. Rather than being the custodian (管理人) of
privacy, the family prepared its members for interaction with the larger
society. Family relationships were valued not merely for their emotional content
but for a wide range of services and contributions to the collective family
unit. We can infer from the passage that ______.
A.lots of people are worried about the future of family
B.people’s anxiety about the future of family is based on facts
C.the breakdown of modem family is a reality we have to accept
D.our understanding of the changes in families is correct