Parents’ Homework: Find Perfect Teachers for
Kids Tomi Hall did what she could to lobby for the best
teachers for her two children, making her case this spring in letters to the
principal. Then all she could do was waiting for news of their classroom
assignments and it’s been torturing. The Aurora mom knows her efforts carry no
guarantees. One year her son didn’t get the teacher Hall had hoped for, and he
struggled for months with one whose relaxed style came across to him as
uncaring. "Granted, I know it’s just kindergarten," said Hall, 39. "But ... a
teacher can make or break you. In the next few weeks, many
families will rip open notification letters or go to school to see class lists
posted on the front door. For parents accustomed to directing nearly every
aspect of their child’s early learning it can be difficult to have little voice
in teacher selection--a decision they view as critical. Some spend hours
crafting the perfect letter or meet with the principal to make an argument. For
their child’s early learning, parents regard that teacher is critical.
Principals, meanwhile, struggle to create balanced classrooms while
juggling (更改) individual requests. They say they want input but find it
increasingly necessary to discourage parents from asking for a specific teacher.
Administrators don’t want the selection process to be a popularity contest--in
part because what makes a teacher popular may have nothing to do with a
particular child’s educational needs. "I’m bright enough to
realize parents talk at soccer fields and baseball fields, but you have to
realize your experience with Teacher A may be very different than someone else’s
Teacher A," said Scott Meek, the new principal at Northbrook Junior High School
who is making classroom assignments this summer for 600 students with the help
of an office display board. He asks parents to focus their input on the student
and his or her learning style and trust the school to make the right
match. Some students also believe that certain teachers bring
out the best in them. "I need one of those strict kinds of teachers," said
Hall’s daughter Tori, 12, who is entering 7th grade. "When I get a not-so-strict
teacher, I think they don’t really care about me. I really don’t want a bad
teacher. I’ll get lower grades." When Chaya Fish, 30, of West
Rogers Park taught at a private school in New York, she said, it was obvious who
the "in, teachers were. She said she automatically joined them after the
principal’s son landed in her classroom. "It was ridiculous," said Fish. "The
other teacher was probably better than me. It was how you dressed, how you
talked" that often determined parental favor. Teachers said the
most vocal parents often get their way so that all parties involved can avoid a
difficult school year. But educators warn that parents who get what they wish
for may be sorry afterward. "A lot of times when people orchestrate (精心安排) who
they think their child is best suited for, they find they made a mistake," said
Mark Friedman, superintendent for Libertyville Elementary School District 70. "I
have many parents say later, ’I don’t know why I did this. It isn’t working out
this year.’" Friedman said he assures parents their comments will be considered
but never guarantees a specific teacher. In fact, he tells them that if they do
request a teacher and later regret that choice, "you have no one to blame but
yourself." Some parents said they’ve learned their lesson about
trying to guess which teacher would be best. Jamie Thompson said she was
initially concerned when her daughter was assigned to a strict lst-grade
teacher. She was aware other parents had lobbied for a different person, who had
a more casual style. "At the end, it turned out that the other class was asking,
’ Why isn’t my child learning that’ "said Thompson, 36, of Arlington Heights.
"That’s why I don’t want to interfere too much." Yet parents
have different reasons for requesting classes, and some have nothing to do with
the teacher, said Michelle Van Every, 36, of Deerfield. She and other mothers
once requested that their children not be placed in a classroom with a specific
boy--not because of him, but to avoid his mother, who had created problems in
the past, she said. "We didn’t want to cross paths with her," said Van Every,
who added that the school complied with their request. "We didn’t want to have
to volunteer with her at a class party." Each district follows
its own procedure for teacher selection. Some begin as early as April or May,
officials said. Many ask parents to complete a form about their child’s
strengths and weaknesses. Typically, teachers have some say in the process by
deciding early on which students should be separated or kept together, on the
basis of academics, personalities and learning styles. The principal draws up
the final class lists, often after meeting with parents or reviewing special
requests, officials said. Many school districts wait until the
last minute to announce class assignments, usually about two weeks before the
start of school. That’s because they have come to expect a flood of phone calls
within hours from parents who beg or demand to switch teachers.
Other schools handle it differently. At Sawyer Elementary School on
Chicago’s Southwest Side, the fall class assignments are handed out with the
last report card the previous spring, said teacher Maureen "Moe" Forte. Forte
said she is aware of colleagues and members of the Local School Council who have
asked that their children be moved from one class into another. "It’s not fair,"
Forte said. "I was very upset that one of the LSC parents moved her daughter to
my classroom... The parent just felt my personality fit better with her child.
But it’s not a personality contest." Denita Ricci of Lake Villa
said she knows parents who request certain classes but tries to stay out of the
process. Her son, Mason Wubs, 12, hopes to be placed in the same class as his
best friend, easing the transition to 7th grade at a new school. "I trust the
school’s judgment," she said, though she secretly hopes Mason will share a class
with his friend. "I think they need to learn to deal with people who are
different from them, just like an employer." Parents have louder voice in teacher selection in their child’s early learning because ______.
A.they are used to directing nearly all aspects of their child B.they are used to spending hours crafting the perfect letter C.they consider their decision is critical D.they consider the teacher is critical