ruler what see something give and get that selflessness himself more bound therefore life which worthy clear Parents can no more be friends to their children than teachers can be to their students. For the essence of friendship is reciprocity(互惠): giving and getting something like (61) you give. Parents (62) to the proper development of their children, and teachers guide the shaping of their students’ minds. It should be (63) now why real friendship requires more than merely having" (64) in common." It is what people have in common (65) determines the kind of friendship they will have. Real friendship requires at least a sound moral character out of the richness of which individuals are able to (66) this precious affection. The more individuals give, the more they realize a genuine kind of (67) , the better friends they are. A good man will not only do for his friend what he would do for (68) but also, if necessary, do (69) . These prerequisites are hard to fulfill, true friendship is (70) to be rare. To acquire a real friend, (71) ,is one of the most praiseworthy accomplishments in (72) . Montaigne tells a story of Cyrus, the (73) of Persia. He was asked whether he would change a valuable horse, on (74) he had just won a race, for a kingdom. Cyrus replied, "No, surely, sir, but I would give him up with all my heart to gain a true friend, could I find out any man (75) of that alliance.\