TEXT A It used to be said that
English people take their pleasure sadly. No doubt this would still be true if
they had any pleasure to take, but the price of alcohol and tobacco in my
country has provided sufficient external causes for melancholy. I have sometimes
thought that the habit of taking pleasure sadly has crossed the Atlantic, and I
have wondered what it is that makes so many English-speaking people somber in
their outlook in spite of good health and a good income. In the
course of my travels in the American I have been impressed by a kind of
fundamental malaise which seems to me extremely common and which poses difficult
problems for the social reformer. Most social reformers have held the opinion
that, if poverty were abolished and there were no more economic insecurity, the
millennium would have arrived. But when I look at the face of people in opulent
cars, whether in your country or in mine, I do not see that look of radiant
happiness which the aforesaid social reformers had led me to expect. In nine
cases out of ten, I see instead a look of boredom and discontent and an almost
frantic longing for something that might tickle the jaded palate.
But it is not only the very rich who suffer in this way Professional men
very frequently feel hopeless thwarted. There is something that they long to do
or some public object that they long to work for. But if they were to indulge
their wishes in these respects, they fear that they would lose their livelihood.
Their wives are equally unsatisfied, for their neighbor, Mrs. So-and-So, has
gone ahead more quickly, has a better car, a larger apartment and grander
friends. Life for almost everybody is a long competitive snuggle
where very few can win the race, and those who do not win are unhappy. On social
occasions when it is de rigueur to seem cheerful, the necessary demeanor is
stimulated by alcohol. But file gaiety does not ring true and anybody who has
just one drink too many is apt to lapse into lachrymose melancholy.
One finds this sort of thing only among English-speaking people. A
Frenchman while he is abusing the Government is as gay as a lark. So is an
Italian while he is telling you how his neighbor has swindled him. Mexicans,
when they are not actually starving or actually being murdered, sing ad dance
and enjoy sunshine and food and drink with a gusto which is very rare north of
the Mexican frontier. When Andrew Jackson conquered Pensacola from the
Spaniards, it was Sunday. She pointed out the scandal to her husband, who
decreed that cheerfulness must cease forthwith. And it did. When
I try to understand what it is that prevents so many American from being as
happy as one might expect, it seems to me that there are two muses, of which one
goes much deeper than the other. The one that goes least deep is the necessity
for subservience in some large organization, If you are an energetic man with
strong views as to the fight way of doing the job with which you are concerned,
you find yourself invariable under the orders of some big man at the top who is
elderly, weary and cynical. Whenever you have a bright idea, the boss puts a
stopper on it. The more energetic you are and the more vision you have, the more
you will suffer from the impossibility of doing any of the things that you feel
ought to be done; When you go home and moan to your wife, she tells you that you
are a silly fellow and that if you became the proper sort of yes--- man your
income would soon be doubled, ff you try divorce and remarriage it is very
unlikely that there will be any change in this respect. And so you are condemned
to gastric ulcers and premature old age. It was not always so.
When Dr. Johnson complied his dictionary, he compiled it as he thought fit. When
he felt like saying oats is food for men in Scotland and horses in England, he
said so. When he defined a fishing-rod as a stick with a fish at one end and a
fool at the other, there was nobody to point out to him that a remark of this
sort would damage the sale of his great work among fishermen. But if, in the
present day, you are (let us say) a contributor to an encyclopedia, there is an
editorial policy which is solemn, wise, gad prudent, which allows no room for
jokes, no place for personal preferences and no tolerance for idiosyncrasies.
Everything has to be flattened out except where the prejudices of the editor am
concerned. To these you must conform, however, little you may share them. And so
you have to be content with dollars instead of creative satisfaction. And the
dollars, alas. leave you sad. This brings me to major cause of
unhappiness, which is that most people in America act not on impulse but on some
principle, and that principles upon which people act are usually faxed upon a
false psychology and a false ethic. There is a general theory as to what makes
for happiness and this theory is false. Life is concerned as a competitive
struggle in which felicity consists in getting ahead of your neighbor. The joys
which are not competitive are forgotten. Now, I will not for a
moment deny that getting ahead of your neighbor is delightful, but it is not the
only delight of which human beings are capable. There are innumerable things
which are not competitive. It is possible to enjoy food and drink without having
to reflect that you have a better cook and better wine merchant than your former
friends whom you are learning to cold- shoulder. It is possible to be fond of
your wife and your children without reflecting how much better she dressed than
Mrs. So-and-So and how much better they are at athletic than the children of
that old stick-in-the-mud Mr. Such-and-Such. There are those who can enjoy music
without thinking how cultured other ladies in their women’s club will be
thinking them There are even people who can enjoy a fine day in spite of the
fact that the sun shines on everybody. All these simple pleasures are destroyed
as soon as competitiveness gets the upper hand. But it is not
only competitiveness that is the trouble. I could imagine a person who has
turned against competitiveness and can only enjoy after conscious rejection of
the competitive element- Such a person, seeing the sunshine in the morning, says
to himself, "Yes, I may enjoy this and indeed I must, for it is a joy open to
all." And however bored he may become with the sunshine he goes on persuading
himself that he is enjoying it because he thinks he ought to.
"But," you will ask, "are you maintaining that our actions ought to be
governed by moral principles’ Are you suggesting that every whim and every
impulse should he given free rein Do you consider that if So-and-So’s nose
annoys you by being too long, that gives you a fight to tweak it "Sir," you
will continue with indignation," your doctrine is one which would uproot all the
sources of morality and loosen all the bonds which hold society together. Only
self-restraint, self-repression, iron self-control make it possible to endure
the abominable beings among whom we have to live, No, sir! Better misery and
gastric ulcers than such chaos as your doctrine would produce. I
will admit at once that there is force in this objection. I have seen many noses
that I should have liked to tweak, but never once have I yielded to the impulse.
But this, like everything else, is a matter of degree. If you always yield to
impulse, you are mad. If you never yield to impulse, you gradually dry up and
very likely become mad to boot. In a life which is to be healthy and happy,
impulse, though mot allowed to nm riot, must have sufficient scope to remain
alive and to preserve that variety and diversity of interest which is natural to
a human being. A life lived on a principle, no matter what’ is too narrowly
determined, too systematic and uniform, to be happy. However much you care about
success, you should have times when you are merely enjoying life without a
thought of subsequence. However proud you .may be, as president of a women’s
club, of your impeccable culture, you should not be ashamed of reading a
low-brow book if you want to. A life which is all principle is a life on rail.
The rails may help toward rapid locomotion, but preclude the joy of wandering.
Man spent some million years wandering before he invented rails, and his
happiness still demands some race of the earlier ages of freedom. What is the main cause of unhappiness for many Americans in the writer’s view
A.Life is a long competitive struggle, very few lucky people can win the race and attain happiness. B.Lack of freedom and stimuli makes people unsatisfied with life. C.People tend to act on dubious principles. D.People’s obsession of getting ahead of theft neighbors.