winners When something goes
wrong, it can be very satisfying to say, "Well, it’s so-and-so’s fault." or "I
know I’m late, but it’s not nay fault; the car broke down." It is probably not
your fault, but once you form the habit of blaming somebody or something else
for a bad situation, you are a loser. You have no power and could do nothing
that helps change the situation. However, you can have great power over what
happens to you if you stop focusing on whom to blame and start focusing on how
to remedy the situation. This is the winner’s key to Success.
Winners are great at overcoming problems. For example, if you were late because
your car broke down, maybe you need to have your car examined more regularly.
Or, you might start to carry along with you the useful phone numbers, so you
could call for help when in need. For another example, if your colleague causes
you problems on the job for lack of responsibility or ability, find ways of
dealing with his irresponsibility or inability rather than simply blame the
person. Ask to work with a different person, or don’t rely on the person. You
should accept that the person is not reliable and find creative ways to work
successfully regardless of how your colleague fails to do his job
well. This is what being a winner is all about creatively
using your skills and talents so that you are successful no matter what happens.
Winners don’t have fewer problems in their lives; they have lust as many
difficult situations to face as anybody else. They are just better at seeing
those problems as challenges and opportunities to develop their own talents. So,
stop focusing on "whose fault it is." Once you are confident about your power
over bad situations, problems are just stepping stop on for success. You should stop focusing on "whose fault it is" if you want to be a
winner.______