填空题

Conflict resolution is an extremely important communication experience;here are a tew suggestions tor preparing for resolving conflict.
Try to fight in (36) . When you air your conflicts in front of others,you create a variety of other problems. You may feel you have to save face and therefore use (37) to win the argument rather than to resolve the conflict. You may become so (38) by the image that others will have of you that you forget you have a relationship problem to resolve. Also, you run the risk of (39) your partner in front of others, which may create resentment and (40) .
Be sure you’re each ready to fight~ Although conflicts (41) at the most inopportune times, you can choose the time to resolve them. (42) your partner when she or he comes home after a hard day of work may not be the right time. Make sure you’re both (43) free and ready. Know what you’re fighting about. (44) . The problem at the center of the conflict is merely an excuse to express anger. (45) . Instead, the underlying hostility, anger, and frustration need to be addressed. Fight about problems that can be solved. (46) . Instead,it creates additional difficulties.