填空题

When a child reaches the age of around eight to 1 , for the first time in his life the idea of love is changed from being loved into loving. As he grows into a (n) 2 eventually, he has overcome his 3 . For him now, to give has become more satisfactory and more joyous than to 4 ; to love has become more important even than being loved.
Related to this change is the development of the 5 of love. When a child grows UP, his 6 to mother gradually 7 some of its vital significance and his relationship to 8 becomes more and more important.
There are essential 9 in quality between motherly love and fatherly love. Motherly love is by nature 10 . Mother loves a child not because the child has 11 any specific condition, or has lived up to any specific 12 .
But the 13 to father is quite different. Father does not represent the 14 world. He represents the world of thought, of 15 and order, of discipline, and of travel and 16 . Father is the one who shows the child into the 17 .
Fatherly love is 18 love. Its principle is "I love you because you fulfill my expectations, because you do your duty. " Fatherly love has a negative and a 19 aspect. The negative aspect is that fatherly love can be 20 if the child does not do what is expected of him.