TEXT C Shyness is the cause of
much unhappiness for a great many people. Shy people are anxious and
self-conscious; that is, they are excessively concerned with their own
appearance and actions. What kind of impression am I making Do they like me Do
I sound stupid Am I wearing unattractive clothes It is obvious
that such uncomfortable feelings must affect people adversely. A person’s
self-concept is reflected in the way he or she behaves, and the way a person
behaves affects other people’s reactions. In general, the way people think about
themselves has a profound effect on all areas of their lives.
Shy people, having low self-esteem, are likely to be passive and easily
influenced by others, They need reassurance that they are doing "the right
thing". Shy people are very sensitive to criticism; they feel it confirms their
inferiority. They also find it difficult to be pleased by compliments because
they believe they are unworthy of praise; a shy person may respond to a
compliment with a statement like this one: "You’re just saying that to make me
feel good. I know it’s not true." It is clear that, while self-awareness is a
healthy quality, overdoing it is harmful. Can shyness be
completely eliminated, or at least reduced Fortunately, people can overcome
shyness with determined and patient effort in building self-confidence. Since
shyness goes hand in hand with lack of self-esteem, it is important for people
to accept their weaknesses as well as their strengths. For example, most people
would like to be "A" students in every subject. It is not fair for them to label
themselves inferior because they have difficulty in some areas. People’s
expectations of themselves must be realistic. Living on the impossible leads to
a sense of inadequacy. Each one of us is a unique, worthwhile
individual. We are interested in our own personal ways. The better we understand
ourselves, the easier it becomes to live up to our full potential Let’s not
allow shyness to block our chances for a rich and fulfilling life. Which of the following statements is TRUE
A.Shyness helps us to live up to our full potential. B.Shyness enables us to understand ourselves better. C.Shyness blocks our chances for a rich life. D.Shyness has nothing to do with lack of self-esteem.