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Shyness is the cause of much unhappiness for a great many people. Shy people are anxious and (36) ; that is, they are excessively concerned with their own appearance and actions. (37) thoughts are constantly occurring in their minds: What kind of (38) am I making Do they like me Do I sound stupid Am I wearing (39) clothes It is obvious that such uncomfortable feelings must affect people (40) , A person’s self-concept is (41) in the way he or she behaves, and the way u person behaves affects other people’s (42) . In general, the way people think about themselves has a (43) effect on all areas of their lives. Shy people are very sensitive to criticism; they feel it confirms their inferiority. (44) A shy person may respond to a compliment with a statement like this One: "You’re just saying that to make me feel good. I know it’s not tree. " (45) Can shyness be completely eliminated, or at least reduced (46) People’s expectations of themselves must be realistic. Living on the impossible leads to a sense of inadequacy.