TEXT C In sixteenth-century Italy
and eighteenth-century France, waning prosperity and increasing social unrest
led the ruling families to try to preserve their superiority by withdrawing from
the lower and middle classes behind barriers of etiquette. In a prosperous
community, on the other hand, polite society soon adsorbs the newly rich, and in
England there has never been any shortage of books on etiquette for teaching
them the manners appropriate to their new way of life. Every
code of etiquette has contained three elements; basic moral duties; practical
rules which promote efficiency; and artificial, optional graces such as formal
compliments to, say, women on their beauty or superiors on their generosity and
importance. In the first category are considerations for the weak and respect
for age. Among the ancient Egyptians the young always stood in the presence of
older people. Among the Mponguwe of Tanzaia, the young men bow as they pass the
huts of the elders. In England, until about a century ago, young children did
not sit in their parents’ presence without asking permission. Practical rules
are helpful in such ordinary occurrences of Social life as making proper
introductions at parties or other functions so that people can be brought to
know each other. Before the invention of the fork, etiquette directed that the
fingers should be kept as clean as possible; before the handkerchief came into
common use, etiquette suggested that after spitting, a person should rub the
spit inconspicuously underfoot. Extremely refined behavior, how-ever, cultivated
as an art of gracious living, has been characteristic only of societies with
wealth and leisure, which admitted women as the social equals of men. After the
fall of Rome, the first European society to regulate behavior in private life in
accordance with a complicated code of etiquette was twelfth-century Province, in
France. Provence had become wealthy. The lords had returned to their castle from
the crusades, and there the ideals of chivalry grew up, which emphasized the
virtue and gentleness of women and demanded that a knight should profess a pure
and dedicated love to a lady who would be his inspiration, and to whom he would
dedicate his valiant deeds, though he would never come physically close to her.
This was the introduction of the concept of romantic love, which was to
influence literature for many hundreds of years and which still lives on in a
debased form in simple popular songs and cheap novels today. In Renaissance
Italy too; in the fourteenth and fifteenth centuries, a wealthy and leisured
society developed an extremely complex code of manners, but the rules of
behavior of fashionable society had little influence on the daily life of the
lower classes. Indeed many of the rules, such as how to enter a banquet room, or
how to use a sword or handkerchief for ceremonial purposes, were irrelevant to
the way of life of the average working man, who spent most of his life outdoors
or in his own poor hut and most probably did not have a handkerchief, certainly
not a sword, to his name. Yet the essential basis of all good manners does not
vary. Consideration for the old and weak and the avoidance of banning or giving
unnecessary offence to others is a feature of all societies everywhere and at
all levels from the highest to the lowest. Which of the following is NOT an element of the code of etiquette
A.Respect for age. B.Formal compliments. C.Proper introductions at social functions. D.Eating with a fork rather than fingers.