Passage 4
Children’s fears come and go, but most children
experience similar types of fears at approximately the same age. For toddlers,
the worst fears are often associated with separation and change. Toddlers want
their own mommy, daddy, .spoon, chair, and bed. They are profoundly conservative
little people. The most daring toddlers feel content if they can hold onto what
they already know. Yet, children’s fears are a useful index of their
development. Fear of strangers appears to be a consequence of their first
specific attachment, and its ending is a sign that they have acquired a more
inclusive schema of faces and people in general. A child who is afraid of cats
but not of rabbits evidently can differentiate one small animal from another.
Fear of a particular person implies recognition of that person.
Parents can be of assistance, both in overcoming fears and in preventing
their development. They can prepare a child through play, stories, and happy
prognostications for dealing with new situations that might be overwhelming;
give prompt and unstinted comfort after a frightening experience; and devise
ways in which a child can be gently and gradually—not abruptly— encouraged to
take another look at feared objects and situations. Avoidance of the feared
object reinforces the fear, and the fear becomes increasingly intense.
Children’s fears should be taken seriously, never ridiculed or dismissed as
silly or babyish. Often, if the caregiver can get the child to explain exactly
what it is that is so frightening, the bald can be reassured. The one thing not
to do is to force children into confronting a feared situation before they are
ready to do so. Almost all children are afraid of something and, as
with adults, these fears are often well- grounded. If we are in an open field
during a thunderstorm, we probably have good reason to be afraid of lightning.
But occasionally fear of something gets out of control and becomes
a phobia. A phobia is an irrational fear of something. A child may be afraid of
the dark and hesitate to go up the stairs alone at night. But when the child
refuses to remain in a place where there is no light, such as the movies or bus
or her bedroom, the fear is taking too great a toll on the child’s development.
There are many different ways that phobias are treated in children.
One of these techniques, commonly referred to as contact desensitization, is a
behavioral technique designed to’ eliminate unnatural fears. This exact
technique was used in one study with fifty snake-avoidant children ranging in
age from three to nine years. To see which technique was most effective, the
fifty children were divided into five groups:
A. Members of the "contact desensitization group" were told about snakes
and how to approach them, were encouraged by an adult to approach a snake, were
given praise when they tried, and watched one adult hold the snake.
B. The "contact desensitization without touch group" received all that
group A did, but no one touched the snake.
C. The "verbal input plus modeling group" received verbal input and
modeling (when the adult touched the snake).
D. The "verbal input only" received only verbal assurances from the adult.
E. Finally, one group of children received no treatment and, hence, was
called the "no treatment group." The researchers used something
called the Behavior Avoidance Test to see if there was a reduction in avoidance
of the snake. The results showed that 82 percent of the children in the contact
desensitization group reduced their fear of snakes. Children in the other groups
also reduced their fear, but not as dramatically. Fears are
something we all have to live with. When they get out of hand, a technique like
the one we described here can be very useful in assisting a child through a
difficult experience.
Which three main topics would best help outline the information in this selection
A.Ⅰ. Universality of children’s fears Ⅱ. Helping children overcome fears Ⅲ. Children’s phobias and their treatment B.Ⅰ. Types of fears in children Ⅱ. Treatment of fears in children Ⅲ Comparison of fears in children and adults C.Ⅰ. Normal fears experienced by toddlers Ⅱ. Normal fears experienced by older children Ⅲ. Phobias experienced by children D.Ⅰ. Children’s fears of people Ⅱ. Children’s fears of situations Ⅲ. Contact desensitization as a treatment for phobias