When I first went to London as a student I sat alone during parties with my glass of wine. I hoped people would thought 76. ______ that I was having great thoughts, and that someone might come towards me and say, "Excuse me! I hope you won’t mind I coming up to you like this. I don’ t want to interrupt your thoughts.., but real, you are 77. ______ the only interesting looking person in the room! May I say to you" It never happened 78. ______ Here is some advices if you want to be a 79. ______ good conversationalist: be an attentive listening. 80. ______ Encourage others to talk about themselves. To be interested. Ask questions that other people will enjoy answer. Encourage them to 81. ______ talk about themselves and what they have done. Remember that the people you are talking to are a hundreds times more interested in themselves and their problems that they 82. ______ are in you and your problems. A person ’ s toothache (牙痛) mean more to that person 83. ______ that a famine (饥荒) in Africa. A pain in 84. ______ one’s ann interest one more than 40 earthquakes 85. ______ in another part of the world. Think of that the next time you start a conversation.